Cadence's Writings, Communication, Uncategorized

"When my friends go up to someone and talk, I don't understand how words just come out of their mouth. I wish I could do that. How do they do that? It's not uncommon for an Autistic child's thinking to be profound or ahead of their peers. It is common for them to have significant… Continue reading

Cadence's Writings, Uncategorized

No, Not all Cats have Autism.

Cadence has two much loved cats,'Mo Mo' and 'Miss Tilly'.  Mo Mo became part of the family the day he was born.  Miss Tilly arrived last year as a 3 month old. Like humans, both moggy's have their own individual personalities and preferences, which Cadence relates to here: Mo Mo is a bit like me.… Continue reading No, Not all Cats have Autism.

Communication

The Truth about Lying – Autism and Inflexible Thinking

Sometimes its big things. Sometimes just little things. But, big or small, in can appear to others that my little Miss has an almost obsessional desire for what others might perceive as ‘bold face lying’. Just recently, to her psychologist of all people, Miss declared, that she didn’t have a white board. Now, anyone who… Continue reading The Truth about Lying – Autism and Inflexible Thinking

Uncategorized

On Oral Sensitivities

Are you crunchy food or soft food orientated? Sensory challenges are common for children (and adults) on the spectrum. Oral sensitivities can be especially challenging when it comes to nutrition necessary for healthy development. Cadence, historically, experiences quite severe oral oversions, which have played a key role in past hospital admissions. Expanding food types is… Continue reading On Oral Sensitivities

Emotions & Feelings, Uncategorized

A Girls Best Friend

A Little Story about One Small Dog and her Young Autistic human - written by eight year old Cadence, about her special friend, 'Ruby Red'. “Ruby Red is my dog. She is a good dog. I don't know if she knows, but she helps me be brave and strong, when I feel scardy cat. She… Continue reading A Girls Best Friend

Cadence's Writings, Communication, Emotions & Feelings, Stimming / Repetative Behaviour

Is there an Autism Fairy?

Cadence, as many eight year old's do, believes without doubt that fairies are real. She has written to the fairies asking a very important question "is there an autism fairy"? If such a fairy exists, she wonders if they might visit her - noting that the fairy will be safe in her friendship; that Cadence… Continue reading Is there an Autism Fairy?

Communication, Uncategorized

Acceptance – a film about autism (words by Cadence)

In five short minutes, Director Abigail Romero, takes us on a journey into the non-verbal world of a young Autistic girl. Through Cadence's words, Romero engages the audience in concepts of both societal acceptance towards Autism and the value of self-acceptance. An honest, sometimes raw but remarkable portrayal of one Autistic child's insight into self,… Continue reading Acceptance – a film about autism (words by Cadence)

Emotions & Feelings, Uncategorized

The Autism Label

When pondering the question, "Why do people call Autism a label?", eight year old Cadence, who has Autism and other challenges, delightfully explained the difference between a tin labelled 'tomatoes', and one of her key 'ingredients', Autism, before proudly declaring "I have more ingredients than tomatoes". Text and image: "Why do people call Autism a… Continue reading The Autism Label

About Cadence, Uncategorized

What an adult might call 'compassionate', a child might call a 'clown'! Seven year old Cadence, who has Autism and other challenges, reminds us there can be much beauty seeing the world through a different lens. It is common for an autistic child to reference, or say things, seemingly inappropriate, or seemingly out of context… Continue reading