Cadence's Writings, Emotions & Feelings, Uncategorized

Sensory Differences & Social Anxiety

"I always thought everyone noticed me because I notice everything. I don't like being noticed.   But I notice everything because I am autism. I maybe don't need to worry about people noticing me because if they are not Autism, they don't notice everything I do" Cadence's definition of the word 'notice' encompasses her significantly heightened… Continue reading Sensory Differences & Social Anxiety

Cadence's Writings, Uncategorized

No, Not all Cats have Autism.

Cadence has two much loved cats,'Mo Mo' and 'Miss Tilly'.  Mo Mo became part of the family the day he was born.  Miss Tilly arrived last year as a 3 month old. Like humans, both moggy's have their own individual personalities and preferences, which Cadence relates to here: Mo Mo is a bit like me.… Continue reading No, Not all Cats have Autism.

Communication

The Truth about Lying – Autism and Inflexible Thinking

Sometimes its big things. Sometimes just little things. But, big or small, in can appear to others that my little Miss has an almost obsessional desire for what others might perceive as ‘bold face lying’. Just recently, to her psychologist of all people, Miss declared, that she didn’t have a white board. Now, anyone who… Continue reading The Truth about Lying – Autism and Inflexible Thinking

Emotions & Feelings, Uncategorized

A Girls Best Friend

A Little Story about One Small Dog and her Young Autistic human - written by eight year old Cadence, about her special friend, 'Ruby Red'. “Ruby Red is my dog. She is a good dog. I don't know if she knows, but she helps me be brave and strong, when I feel scardy cat. She… Continue reading A Girls Best Friend

Cadence's Writings, Emotions & Feelings, Uncategorized

No, there is no ‘Autism Fairy’.

When eight year old Cadence, who has Autism and other challenges, penned a heartfelt letter to the fairies asking the important question, "is there an autism fairy?", Queen Fairy thought long and hard about her response. If such a fairy existed, young Cadence wondered if she might visit her – noting that the fairy will… Continue reading No, there is no ‘Autism Fairy’.

Cadence's Writings, Communication, Emotions & Feelings, Stimming / Repetative Behaviour

Is there an Autism Fairy?

Cadence, as many eight year old's do, believes without doubt that fairies are real. She has written to the fairies asking a very important question "is there an autism fairy"? If such a fairy exists, she wonders if they might visit her - noting that the fairy will be safe in her friendship; that Cadence… Continue reading Is there an Autism Fairy?

Stimming / Repetative Behaviour, Uncategorized

Sometimes when ‘stuff’ happens, you just have to be a dog!

It’s not uncommon to see small children at the local shopping center, pretending to be all manner of things – animals, superhero’s, fairy’s and cowboys, just to name a few.  It was only last week Cadence and I saw a pint-sized gold fish traversing the aisle of our local shop! But what of ‘bigger kids’?… Continue reading Sometimes when ‘stuff’ happens, you just have to be a dog!

Communication, Uncategorized

Acceptance – a film about autism (words by Cadence)

In five short minutes, Director Abigail Romero, takes us on a journey into the non-verbal world of a young Autistic girl. Through Cadence's words, Romero engages the audience in concepts of both societal acceptance towards Autism and the value of self-acceptance. An honest, sometimes raw but remarkable portrayal of one Autistic child's insight into self,… Continue reading Acceptance – a film about autism (words by Cadence)